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Conversation Agreements

Setting the Tone for Respectful Dialogue

The One Small Step Conversation Agreements are a shared set of guidelines that help participants enter conversations with care, curiosity, and mutual respect.

Rather than strict rules, these agreements establish a common understanding of how people will engage with one another — creating the conditions for honest sharing, thoughtful listening, and meaningful connection across difference.

Tip: Agreements can be read aloud, displayed visually, or printed and placed where participants can easily see them.

  • Set clear expectations before dialogue begins
  • Create a sense of safety and shared responsibility
  • Support conversations across political, cultural, or personal differences
  • Reduce tension and defensiveness
  • Reinforce One Small Step listening practices